Monday Morning Ramblings

It's a dreary Monday morning and all I can do is play and replay all of the various items I need to take care of, on both a personal level and a business level. I'm a bit cranky today...well, not so much cranky as in deep thought...analyzing myself in different areas, you know? But anyway. My mind is wandering... 1. I'm really rather upset that the microwave at my job burned...

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To Marry or Not to Marry? (Self-Analysis #2 of...)

"Do you want to get married?" "Don't you?" "Girl, you don't know what you want your wedding dress to look like?" [blank stare] "Why won't you have more kids?" "When will you have more kids?" These are the questions that I have been bombarded with lately, in particular the last week. Apparently, I have the "You're Not Getting Older & You Need to Find Someone" sign on my...

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Venus vs. Mars: Why Folks Don't Get It (aka Stop Beating a Dead Horse)

I'm sure that by now, many of you have either heard about or listened to or seen Nightline's Face Off, where they did a forum on why the Successful Black Woman cannot find a good man. *dramatic sigh* We haven't figured this out yet? It's real simple...I didn't need to hear Steve, Sherri, Hill, and Jacque (the other panelist, Jimi, I'm ignoring him - he should stick to writing...

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The Economics of Infidelity

So I got to reading the best book ever:  More Sex is Safer Sex by Steven E. Landsburg is a book that likens economic concepts and challenges with, well, promiscuity. What's that you say? Sex and money in one book? I'm for it!! *wink* But anyway. I'm going to talk about sex. And economics. But mostly sex.  Right. So...when I started reading...

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The Cumulus Cloud that is Sex, Love, and Marriage

So this past weekend, my Dashing Divas (we shall call them Chef (me), International, Fashionista, and Ivy League) and I went to Atlantic City to release some tension, go on vacation, and...well...be divas, of course. We got the chance to hang out and be splendiferously (yes, this is a word today) fabulous. Check us out!    Now. During one of our many visits to...

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